Am I a reflection of you, and you a projection of me?

A lot of people spend their time thinking about their present lover, past lover’s, or future lover’s. There’s nothing wrong with any of these things.

How you feel thinking about them, says a lot about you, and where you’re at, the fact that you are thinking of them, lets you know that it has something to do with present state of mind.

Keep in mind, sometimes a thought is just a thought, and things can remind you of certain people, so don’t feel overwhelmed thinking about somebody, even if you don’t want to think about them.

Now connections are huge, and how you feel around somebody, says a lot about who they allow you to be in their presence. We as humans are extremely reflective, and if you feel good around someone, it’s because being around that person allows you to be a version of yourself that you appreciate and enjoy.

The key is finding people, that allow you to feel like your most authentic and wonderful self.

How you act in the presence of each person, plays just as large of a role, in determining who you become.

Why? Because the way you shift your actions and verbal comments in the presence of different people, will become a part of your intrinsic self. It becomes internalized in your being.

So you hang out with people that you feel good being around, and you’ll do that more, you spend time with people you don’t feel good around, and that feeling is going to linger. If you have doubts about where you stand with someone, that doubt will be reflected in your interactions.

That’s why the natural connection’s you experience with other people are so significant.

Energy doesn’t lie, because it’s an internal experience within you, that you have to develop an ability to recognize, and trust.

It’s real. Energy is real. If you don’t believe that, go stand in a room, with a couple that’s been fighting. As soon as you enter the room, you’re going to feel the tension that they have.

Why am I bringing all of this up? Because YOU already have an awareness of the kind of people that you like to spend time with, and want to spend time with.

Connections aren’t something you have to force or create. It is innate, natural and understood. It is the the result of your soul being able to see eye to eye with another soul.

Recognize what you feel, and use that as a guide for the people you continue to surround yourself with. You shouldn’t have to force anyone to spend time with you, everyone that is meant to be in your life, will gladly be a part of your life.

You don’t have to go out of your way to be with people everyday, and you don’t have to take every invitation that comes your way.

Know that the people that want to spend time with you, will. You already have an awareness for people you want to spend time with, and you can’t force it.

If you feel like you’re forcing yourself to spend time with a certain person, your body is letting you know, that you’re doing something you shouldn’t. It’s that slight hesitation of not wanting to do something.

Keep in mind you never know how something will work out and it’s a fallacy to assume that we do.

I only want to remind you to respect yourself, acknowledge what you truly feel, recognize what feels real, and spend time with the people that bring out the best in you.